Sunday, October 16, 2011

Turning a house into a HOME

It's a beautiful Sunday morning here in our quiet little townhouse, and I'm feeling quite grateful for the comforts of life that Geoff and I are able to enjoy.  Hard to believe it's been over a month now that we've been married... but at the same time, it really feels like I've known him a lifetime already!  Nonetheless, we are making an effort to appreciate the day-to-day moments, knowing that life is only going to speed past us if we don't stop and take it all in...

This weekend marks the first time we've really been apart since our wedding day -- Geoff, as many of you know, is busy this time of year attending various snowmobile shows across the western states.  Last weekend we both traveled to Denver for the first show of the season, but this weekend I decided to stay home while Geoff flew up to Seattle to work another show.  It's been an interesting experience for me... I'm really trying to make this house feel like a home -- OUR home -- but being alone in this house made me realize I still have some work to do.  Not so much organizing/decorating, but more just LIVING within these walls to call it my own.  I had some girlfriends come up to the house this week, and I really started to realize that it's people and experiences that create a feeling of "home."  With that in mind, I'm really starting to tear out pages of the "housewife manual" to try to be a better hostess and create more opportunities for building memories.  In writing our story, this will forever be the first home that we lived in as a family -- and I want to have special times to remember.  I'm a sentimentalist, what can I say?  :)  But I do have some photos of our new place, and I want to share a few with you....





And there you have it!  Not so bad for a couple of newlyweds :)  As for the job hunt... I've applied to various positions at the University of Utah Hospital, but have not heard back from them yet. I know that my lack of hospital experience puts me further down on the list of potential candidates, and it frustrates me -- how am I supposed to get experience if I'm not given that critical first job?  I know that the economy and the Obama Care have both played pivotal roles in this, eliminating necessary funding to train "new grad" nurses, but it doesn't change the fact that I am a registered nurse and I sincerely WANT to learn and work!!  Doesn't that count for something?!  I didn't just go to a 2-year program either... the Johns Hopkins Nursing Program was recently named the #1 nursing program in the country.  Shouldn't that make me more of an appealing applicant?  Well, even though the U's hospital has been the dream hospital I've wanted to work for, I'm not going to rule out other options -- like working in another clinic.  As I've mentioned before, my "calling" as a nurse is to work in Women's Health.  I wanted to go the route of Midwifery, but taking a break from school and working for a bit was more important -- to gain a better perspective, as well as experience, before enrolling in a Master's program.  And look what it brought me -- a husband!  haha.  The one disappointing thing that I've learned is that Labor & Delivery units rarely hire new grad nurses, and Mother/Baby (Postpartum) units rarely have positions open up.  It's not a promising first step, but I know that's the direction I want to go.  I've tossed around ideas of working in other units to get that "experience" in order to apply for the units I really want to work for, but nursing is emotionally/physically/mentally draining, and unless you are truly passionate about the work you are doing, it can be overwhelming.  Don't get me wrong, I would give 150% at whatever job I worked, but the difference between a JOB and a CAREER is the passion you have for the work you're doing.  So in my search to find open job applications, I stumbled across a post for a reproductive/fertility clinic... sent in my application... and now I have an interview!  Not to get my hopes up, but as I read through their website, I realized that this would be an incredible opportunity for me -- not only as a job/career, but I got excited about what I could LEARN and the services I would be able to offer to that patient population.  That excitement really got me fired up for this interview, so I'm hoping/praying that things go well next week!  We shall see... :)

And I think that about wraps it up for this entry!  I'll be back soon enough... much love!


Thursday, October 6, 2011

Summer days are now a memory...


It's a cold, rainy morning here in Bountiful, Utah (my new hometown -- a small suburb just north of Salt Lake City) and I'm waiting at the car dealership for my husband's truck to get repaired.  I'm such a wonderful wife, right?  He's just lucky I don't have a job to occupy my time... haha.  Guess I'll be his personal assistant until I can secure an income of my own!  Hopefully that won't take too long... I'm giving it a few more weeks, before I really start to stress.  I can only handle so much free time!  Thankfully, though, I do have quite a few things on my never-ending "To Do List" that will keep me busy.  I am quite excited, actually -- our "Thank You" notes finally arrived in the mail, so I am finally getting those written and mailed to all our family and friends who supported us with love and gifts for our wedding.  Hard to believe it's been a MONTH now...!!  But I know time will not be slowing down any time soon....

Yesterday, our family had a special opportunity to take my "little" brother down to the Provo MTC, and watch as he walked off to spend the next 2 years of his adult life as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  What a bittersweet moment for us all, and I know I echo the thoughts of everyone that knows Greg to express how proud we are of his decision, and how excited we are to see what he will accomplish in the next two years.  While we will miss him, I know that he has a strong, sincere desire to do this work, and I couldn't be more happy for him.  So... Elder Newman it is!!  And for those who aren't aware, he set up a blog that I will manage over the next 2 years to share his thoughts/experiences while he is serving the Lord in Tampa, Florida.  the website address is:


So check back for updates!  And in order to contact him, here is his contact information:

MTC address (where he will be for the first 2 months of his mission):
 

Elder Greg Newman
MTC Box 149-1206
2005 N  900 E
Provo, UT 84604


Florida (wait for updates as to when he will be flying out there):
Elder Greg Newman
Florida Tampa Mission
13153 N Dale Mabry Ste 109
Tampa, FL  33618


So there you have it!! If you have any questions, please contact me... I'll probably be the most reliable source for updates over the next two years :)

As for updates in my own life... well...its October 6, and it's FREEZING outside.  What happened to summer?!  It took forever to get here... and now it's gone.  Just like that.  No warning... no way to just ease my way into the cold weather.  just BAM. Today marks the first major snowfall of the year in our neck of the woods, at least above 8000 feet.  As much as I love seasons, there should be FOUR!  Right now I feel like it's winter 75% of the year here.... gahhh.  At least one person in our house is overjoyed... hahaha.  But he complained enough during the summer, so it's my turn now :)  Okay, okay... I really don't hate winter, it really can be a lot of fun (especially with a husband who has a lot of fun toys to play with out there!) but I like getting sick of summer so I am eager for cooler weather!  One more month would have done it... but c'est la vie.  So now I guess I'll just accept it... and hopefully, in time, I will learn to welcome it with open arms :)  If nothing else, I'll humor my husband's obsession with snow!  Which brings me to my next update:  the fall season is going to be quite busy for Geoff and I... this weekend will be our first "snow show" of the season (and my first snow show EVER), with another 4 in the weekends ahead.  I'm sure this will be a bit of a culture shock for me, so I'm excited to update you with my experiences after the next few weeks!  First, however, we kick off the season with Geoff's latest snowmobile movie premier tonight at a dinner/movie event center downtown.  I'm excited, to see Geoff in his element, surrounded by his friends and those who share his passion for the snow.  I know it will be a busy event for us, but fun nonetheless!  Then we pack up and head for Denver early tomorrow morning, for the 3-day convention center show where we will sell Boondockers gear and movies (the company that Geoff produces movies for).  And because he has worked incredibly hard on this project, I'll finish this post with a plug for his movie....